Wednesday, January 25, 2012

#baseballgirlfriendproblems.

the day after my birthday celebration love fest, i said bye to my baseballer
and then off he flew to Florida for a little pre spring training camp.
but juuust for four days

these 4 days have definitely given me a little taste of  my soon-to-be reality in 
t-minus 3 or so weeks.. when Austin will leave for the long long baseball season,
because i  missed him.  like, pretty darn fast.
as in byeeeeee, see ya lateeeeeer, beep, beep
and then driving home thinking, i miss him. 

and of course that makes me  anxious for when he leaves for the next 6+ months
because i've come to realize, no matter how many seasons you've been through- 
it really doesn't get easier saying bye to your bff

but equally as important. things will be different.
like my forensic files watching. i can't watch it alone. i tried. i really did. but stopped once i found out the killer was the apartment maintenance man. it got a liiiitttle to close for comfort!
and my subway eating. it just doesn't taste as perfect like when Austin orders it
and my charlie bear laughing. i won't be finding him in anymore funny places
for ex. last week:




#baseballgirlfriendproblems.

29 comments:

Joey said...

You are so strong. It's such a tough thing, I'm sure. Enjoy your time that you've got left with him. Good luck, love!

Amanda said...

:-( You're gonna rock the next 6 months. Promise, promise!

Katie said...

aww you'll be ok! I know it. he looks too cute up there :) enjoy the time lady!

erin rae mac said...

My husband plays hockey and though I'm so fortunate to be with him during the season I have made a lot of friends who aren't as lucky. Enjoy still being able to miss him, have lots of girl's nights, and Skype date as much as you can!! :o)

Brooke said...

You've got us to get you through it: )

Rissy said...

well you know what you can fill your days with? Group MMS chats ; ) hehe so when you're home in the evenings, you will get all our goofy pics and love!

You guys have the best relationship Chelsea. I love when you share stuff about it. And hey Florida isn't that far away... long weekends here you come : )


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Samantha said...

Aww, you will be okay! I can't even imagine! At least you get to plan a great welcome back party when for when he gets home! I know how much you love parties! :)

Sam

Michelle (michabella) said...

Awww! You got this girl!!! At least you have all of us :) Where in FL is he training at??

Sarah said...

this post makes me sad :( but I know you'll be ok. You'll have to just put Charlie bear in random places and take pics and send them to each other! :) Plus, I plan on moving down there before the summer so you may have a new friend to occupy your time- haha ;)

jayme said...

aw stone. :( so sad. can't you just go with him!?

Jenna said...

Awww sorry he's going so soon - but before you know it the season will be over and he'll be back and all will be wonderful again :)

I know how you feel, my bf and I had to do international long term distance on 2 occasions and it was no bueno. But the important thing is that you get through it :)

xxx
Jenna

Courtney said...

I know how you feel. When me and my fiancé met, we lived in different states. It's so hard! But it really does make you appreciate being together.

Jess - PrettyPhysicist said...

You can always visit me! :) I know it's none of my business, but when you visit Stone, do you stay with him or get your own hotel? (I don't even know where he stays.)

chelsea said...

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Sophie said...

oh no. i remember around this time last year before he was leaving. it has come around too fast!

charlie bear is the best x

Ashley Slater said...

aw chelsea :( I think charlie bear is going to miss him too!

Caroline said...

Chels!! I just started keeping up with your blog again! You have such a following these days! Good for you girl. Dont be sad about Austin. Just keep looking forward to all the trips you and him will have in the upcoming six months. If you need a buddy to watch scary shows with ill come over and keep ya company! Loves ya

Jessica Wray said...

Aw this is such a sweet (and a little sad) post. I know it is, girly... It's tough. Hang in there :)

Erin said...

I know how hard distance is...and I hope that the distance does not have to go on much longer! :) Stay strong hun!

wildchild said...

gross. so dumb that he has to leave. i'm sorry that you have to go through that shittiness :(

Young and Fabulous said...

distance makes the heart grow fonder :-) You should do a "traveling charlie bear" and send him to stone once a month and stone will take pics of him in all teh most random places ever! how cool would it be if he got CharlieBear on a MLB pitcher mound?! he'd be famous!

i love you two...y'all have the biggest hearts and best relationship ever!

xoxox

Sarah said...

eeeek. I know the feeling. I love baseball but ohhhh how I hate it. You know what I mean :)
Love seeing pictures of little charlie bear!

Renee said...

#baseballgirlfriendproblems make me sad! I don't like!!

Crazy Shenanigans-JMO said...

Aw! I wish there was a way that you could go and be with him!

Lauren said...

Been there, you can make it! Plus it'll be worth it when he's in the BIG leagues!!!

Erin said...

:( You can do it sister! We're all here for you!

Marshall said...

it's not going to be easy being apart that long, but it will make your relationship stronger and more defined that is for sure.

miss your face!

Karla said...

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Suz said...

Ah I know the feeling of saying by to your man! Hope you two are getting settled and ready for the real season!